OUr first time seeking counseling and for six months proved WELL WORTH IT. Our relationship is better than it ever has been. Joseph has a disarming, understated style. Hes not gonna tell you the fix -- but thats the reality of any counseling -- guiding a couple through the sessions, readings & discussing helpful material,, personality assessments that bring greater understanding. By talking through our upbringing, families, early married years, love and respect for one another was rekindled. It was our first time seeking help in our 40 YEAR marriage. If he could help us after being married THAT LONG, dont you think he could help yours?