For the first time in a year, I had an amazing date and it was my first set up! For starters, I had a personal coaching session with Em before the date. She opened my eyes and gave me some pointers that made dating actually enjoyable! I hated dating and saw it as a necessary torture - but she helped me realize how to better approach the date and it paid off!The actual date itself was incredible because we had so much in common. He was engaging and we share core beliefs. Unlike painful Match dates, the conversation flowed and he was incredible fun to talk to. I am not doing this dating thing alone anymore! Em’s team are experts in their field and I am thankful to have them in my life.
Where to start?From her evidence-based approach to dating (read about her 100 date experiment) to her passion for helping people, her wonderful personality and her huge trove of dating wisdom, working with Em over the past few months has been nothIng short of one of the BEST decIsions Ive made.Would recommend for anyone in need of a dating coach or matchmaker.
Emyli updated my dating skills and within a couple of weeks helped me go from dating apps literally telling me there were no women to match me with, to multiple dates in one day!She is attentive, great with helping problem solve, and overall has the coaching thing down. The quantity of tools you get with her program is enough to help even those of us that use spreadsheets for everything. Even with that, its not overwhelming. She breaks it all down so you can tackle one issue at a time. Shes put the effort into her toolbox so you can easily make it work for you.Online dating is hard. We all know that. With Emylis help Ive managed to break everything down into those small steps where wins can be seen, then built on. She provided encouragement when needed, a kick in the pants when needed, and advice that has shown results.If youre getting back into the dating game and dont know what to do; or youve been trying to date for a while with no success; or are getting dates but not the ones you want; you owe it to yourself to work with emlovz.
Emlovz has been the best choice that I have made in regards to getting better at dating. Before I enrolled, I experienced a lot of social anxiety in regards to dating, and Em helped me learn new strategies and see where I was going wrong. As a result of the program, I was able to get into my first relationship with a woman and feel a lot more confident when it comes to dating going forward. Highly recommend.
I found Emlovz through her website from the articles about dating on the apps because her articles just seemed... better than other articles Ive read about dating on apps. After about a week of modest improvement from employing artciles decided to do the 25 min appointment to see what she is all about.I wasnt immediately sold based on that 25-min info session, so is it worth it - because the cost was somewhat of a barrier to me. And I can 100% say it was completely worth it.I did the 1-on-1 coaching program and it blew me away with how personalized and specific your coaching sessions can get - right down to individual text messages. If you want the best results from Em - let her challenge you (she will) but make honest efforts to overcome her challenges and your results will be AMAZING. I actually had to be WAY more selective of the women I went on dates with because Id get too many (5+ dates a week) if I swiped on appearance alone.But Em is a great person to work with, very professional. But she has a great personality & really invests in you as a client and as a friend.
I found Emylis site when looking for online dating tips and then I decided to book an appointment with her. When I met her I was broken, hopeless, felt rejected and unlovable. Since that first meeting she gave me back the confidence Ive lost. When Emyli took me into the program I felt accepted and valuable. The program helped me to revalue myself, improve my dating life by understand the dating world. Emylis hard work and passion is inspiring, she is the kind of person you always want to have in your corner, and for me she is my hero.
I met Em (virtually) after stumbling across her Instagram page...i had just ended a coach/client relationship that was very disappointing. I booked a VERY inexpensive call with her and was immediately impressed. I know that we went WAY over the normal time allotment for such calls, but Em really LISTENED. Instead of the typical hard sell you would normally get on such a call, she listened...shared her own experiences and struggles...offered advice (even recommending services totally unrelated to the ones she offers) and just generally seemed like my friend. In fact, that was the overwhelming takeaway i had from that first call--Em immediately felt like my friend...a friend who has your best interests...your REAL best interests...at heart.I am a difficult student...thats just a fact. And even after certain breakthroughs, I REMAIN a difficult student. But Em never threw her hands up and said enough. Oh she threw down the gauntlet a few times when I needed it...and held her ground...shes definitely not a pushover. But she never screamed ENOUGH, even though thats what I am internally hardwired to try to illicit. And because she never has said ENOUGH to me, I am eternally grateful. I think Em has great powers of deduction and discernment...she knew from the beginning that i was going to be difficult and need her acceptance...and she freely gave it, even when I tried my damndest to throw it back. Folks, I could talk a lot about Em and her megadating strategy (brilliant) or her detailed instructions on formulating your dating profile (has made a huge difference for me and my success in dating) or countless other areas where her tireless work and insight make her classes and consultation TOTALLY worth your time and money...but what really makes Em worth it is just Em being Em...one of the finest people I know and one of my greatest (virtual) friends.
Priced squarely between higher-end subscription services like eHarmony and Silicon Valley matchmakers charging $50-75K and up (yes, that is what some matchmakers charge), Emyli provides a service that most professionals will find affordable and definitely worth the effort. Ems service can be broken down into three categories: Her training materials, her academy series, are actually quite inexpensive and very much worth it for people, specifically men, who lack polish around the opposite sex or who could use a refresher after an extended period away from the front lines. Even if you intend to rely on match or eharmony or whatever for your dates, some time spent perfecting your game with the training materials will reduce your frustration and ego-damage considerably. I still turn back to them for pointers before dates, or when making a decision regarding a potential mate. More involved are her personal coaching sessions which I found well worth the investment. Most single people have spent time wondering why theyre single. After all, your parents, siblings and friends will all smile and say what a catch you are: Emyli wont. Instead shell spend three or four months grinding off your rough edges and building you back up into something that has a chance in San Franciscos ruthless dating game. If you want to hear how handsome you are, ask your mom. If you want to know why you keep striking out, ask Em because shell tell you...you might end up crying in bed once or twice but she wont abandon you or sugarcoat things just to keep your checks coming (payment is up front anyway so you cant rage-quit). In fact her persistence and willingness to do the job without concern for the hours required to do it is what makes this a legitimately five star service. Just be prepared because hearing the unvarnished truth about why the opposite sex isnt buying into you and what its going to take to make changes can be a brutal experience. Finally, Emyli also works as a matchmaker. Generally, she will require that you, at the very least, complete some training before she unleashes you on the dating public of San Francisco. This is definitely the most expensive option but still costs far, far less than other services for professionals. If youre an engineer, or doctor or lawyer, then it is well worth the expense because your time is precious. No one with a serious job wants to work 50-60 hours to make that Bay Area money and then go look at Match or eHarmony for another couple hours...much more economical to pay someone else to do your recruiting, to your specifications, do the preliminary interviews, and only then submit them for your approval and scheduling. More than just matchmaking however, Emyli will continue to train and refine your approach, and her matches, as you progress towards your goals. For 20-25% of what your Bay Area or Silicon Valley Matchmakers charge at the high end, this is an extremely reasonably service...and Im now engaged to a girl in tech, ten years my junior with twice my salary. I wouldnt have any shot at without my coach.
Emlovz has been so helpful and beyond amazing in my dating journey. I learned so much from her during our sessions and felt much better prepared to handle all sorts of dating situations. I applied what she told me and it definitely gets awesome results. She answered all my questions in-depth and helped me develop a better understanding of women, relationships, and the dating world. She gives you super great insights and make you think from a different perspective. Also, she has such a good heart and really cares about your success. Her principles have been leading me toward a relationship with a special woman right now. Highly recommend her for your dating needs. Thanks Emyli for bearing with me
I had just gotten divorced, I was petrified of dating, and was already in a relationship that was not good for me. I was so averse to the entire idea of dating that I was ready to entirely give up and join a monastery.I started looking around for dating consultants, and found Emlovz. It was a lot of money - but not nearly as costly as a bad relationship. At first I was skeptical that the concept of “megadating” was for me. My idea of dating was more geared toward serious relationships, the idea of having many of them was scary.Emyli was patient and her lesson plans helped me to zero in on the attributes that I was looking for in a romantic partner. Her materials were sound and she was flexible - focusing on the areas where I had the most questions. Meeting over Skype was super convenient - since I live in the South Bay and served the purpose well. She helped me with everything from dating photos and apps to scripts for the dates and how to narrow the list of candidates. Her dating formulas for the first, second and third dates helped me to see how it was easy to meet people through the apps and evaluate them without risking a lot of time, money, or hurt feelings. The true power in the mega-dating approach is that you feel confident even in rejection because there are other candidates that you have in the pipeline. You also simply don’t have the time to obsess about anyone because you are busy finding candidates and obtaining first dates.Finally, Emyli shared a lot of how the process feels from the other side and was able to give great insight into how women approach the process. This helped a lot in understanding how the structure of the dates helped to give the best chances that your preferred partner will say yes to you!In the end, I ended up evaluating 15 romantic partners (which is more than I ever thought I would) before I found someone that I am quite happy with. With all of the comparison points, it was easy for me to decide which person was the best fit for me and I am truly happy with the result.I highly recommend her services - it was highly educational and effective!